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The Secret to Joy with Randy Frazee
This week’s guest is speaking my language on every level!! He’s been studying joy as a pastor and researcher for 5 years and, in his words, “mining the book of Philippians for joy for 27.” As a But Randy Frazee’s mission is not just to teach us about joy. He’s here to teach us how to build our joy muscles; how to, as his new book The Joy Challenge’s subtitle assures: discover the ancient secret to experiencing worry-defeating, circumstance-defying happiness. Who doesn’t want that??
Randy walks us through the spiritual, the scientific, and the practical of seeking and sustaining life-changing joy. Not just temporal happiness, but a lifestyle and mindset of joy despite our circumstances, our people, our pasts, and our greatest worries. Randy draws ancient wisdom from the apostle Paul in Philippians as well as modern neuroscience and physiology to give us a full picture understanding of how our minds and spirits work together to lead us into lives of daily joy.
Follow Randy here www.randyfrazee.com/
Get The Joy Challenge book here www.amazon.com/Joy-Challenge-Experiencing-Worry-Defeating-Circumstance-Defying/dp/0718086163
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This Made Us Sign Up for Marriage Counseling
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Watch the Full Video ▶ua-cam.com/video/CiXiDZO5bHs/v-deo.html Follow the Couple Things Instagram ▶ couplethingspod?hl=en Follow My Instagram ▶ ShawnJohnson Follow My Tik Tok ▶ www.tiktok.com/@shawnjohnson Shop My LTK Page ▶ www.shopltk.com/explore/shawnjohnson Like the Facebook page! ▶ ShawnJohnson Follow Andrew’s Instagram ▶ AndrewDEast An...
answering inappropriate questions
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Follow the Couple Things Instagram ▶ couplethingspod?hl=en Follow My Instagram ▶ ShawnJohnson Follow My Tik Tok ▶ www.tiktok.com/@shawnjohnson Shop My LTK Page ▶ www.shopltk.com/explore/shawnjohnson Like the Facebook page! ▶ ShawnJohnson Follow Andrew’s Instagram ▶ AndrewDEast Andrew’s Tik Tok ▶ www.tiktok.com/@andrewdeast?lang=en Like the ...
The Gift of the Unexpected: Finding yourself when your life goes off plan with Jillian Benfield
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What if the dreaded, unexpected thing in your life is actually the beginning of becoming your truest, most flourishing self? This is Jillian’s story. This is my story. This is all of our stories at some point in life if we learn to yield to the God who redeems EVERYTHING. After receiving a life-altering diagnosis for her unborn son, Jillian Benfield faced not just unmatched grief as a young mot...
when the dating coach gets married
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This show is sponosred by AG1! ▶ Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3 K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase exclusively at www.drinkAG1.com/COUPLETHINGS. Today we got to interview the one and only Matthew Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and coach who specializes in confidence and relational intelligence. Matthew is known by millions for his ...
Reset Your Relationship with Your Phone & Restore the Relationships That Matter with Joey Odom & Aro
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I’d be willing to bet you’ve found and are listening to this week’s episode on your phone, right? So let me start by saying - phones are not evil! But we’re lying to ourselves if we don’t admit their power to addict, distract, and ultimately steal from many of life’s joys given the CONSTANT connection and attention most of us give them. Did you know…? 91% of adults have their phone within arm’s...
getting through the "roommate" phase
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We’re back with part two of answering your questions about being a family of five! In this episode, we hit on just about everything under the sun from Intimacy and being in a “roommate phase” to Bear’s blue eyes and jealousy with the kids. We love doing Q&A episodes so be sure to follow us on Instagram so you can send in a question for the next one! Love you guys! Shawn and Andrew Follow the Co...
Enrich Marriage & Intimacy w/ Lindsey Maestes
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Well friends, this is the one either you’ve been eagerly waiting for OR the one that scares you the most to open 🤪. This week, we’re talking all things marriage and intimacy. This was obviously such a gift for me as Connor and I approach our first anniversary next month, but Lindsey’s work as a marriage and intimacy coach, writer, and podcaster serves those in any and every stage of marriage. O...
From Rock Bottom to Radical Joy: Why Your Story Matters with Molly Stillman
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From Rock Bottom to Radical Joy: Why Your Story Matters with Molly Stillman
olympics intimacy ban, intimacy after having a baby and other advice you asked for
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olympics intimacy ban, intimacy after having a baby and other advice you asked for
FamilyMade LIVE ‘23 Highlights - Nashville, TN
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FamilyMade LIVE ‘23 Highlights - Nashville, TN
wonderfully challenging marriage with daryl ann and daniel denner
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wonderfully challenging marriage with daryl ann and daniel denner
How to Get Past Your Past with Jason VanRuler
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did 3 kids wreck our life?
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did 3 kids wreck our life?
Kinda Counseling #4 - Q&A Interview with Mattie
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Kinda Counseling #4 - Q&A Interview with Mattie
infidelity, divorce, suicide, addiction, bankruptcy, and redemption with John and Ash Marsh
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family and fatherhood with NBA star chris paul
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an unbelievable marriage (literally)
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How to fight for a life of friendship and true connection with Justin Whitmel Earley
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How to fight for a life of friendship and true connection with Justin Whitmel Earley
experiencing tragedy and addiction with your partner | doug and jamie hehner
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experiencing tragedy and addiction with your partner | doug and jamie hehner
the secret to happiness and a 40 year marriage | erwin and kim mcmanus
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the secret to happiness and a 40 year marriage | erwin and kim mcmanus
when parents don’t approve with Mandie and Danae
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when parents don’t approve with Mandie and Danae
third baby birth story
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third baby birth story
mental health, marriage and faith with gabe and jess conte
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mental health, marriage and faith with gabe and jess conte
the best of 2023 + GIVEAWAY | couple things
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the best of 2023 GIVEAWAY | couple things
wild stories pt 5: olympic and NFL life-altering moments, broken bones and marathon tribulations
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Resolutions, Intentions, and Setting Your Filters for 2024
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  • @holly0910
    @holly0910 Годину тому

    About your sunglasses…. My stepdad has always told me that the sun always shines when you’re cool!! 😎 😉 Lol

  • @jasminebrown2312
    @jasminebrown2312 6 годин тому

    💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @mejustme71
    @mejustme71 15 годин тому

    Happy spouse, happy house!

  • @itsingram
    @itsingram 18 годин тому

    Loved listening to your advice and you opening up/getting vulnerable while answering these questions. I’m listening to another podcast currently called “Dates, Mates, & Babies” by Jason & Lauren Vallotton and thought about it while listening to your video. Just thought I’d send it your way!

  • @suzabella2769
    @suzabella2769 22 години тому

    ❤😊 thank you

  • @jimnelsen2064
    @jimnelsen2064 День тому

    Wait, so "talking" and "communication" and "listening", sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. Yes sarcasm sheldon.

  • @thinkingoutloud9126
    @thinkingoutloud9126 День тому

    You probably need to know each other’s traumas, it helps navigate things, but you don’t need to share everything. If you’ve had two or three traumatic relationships they probably need to know a bit about that, but if she tells me something like “back when I was 21, in college, I smashed 22 dudes in a weekend…” I’ll never see her the same. Chances that someone worthy of the long term ever having done that is slim, but on the off chance they are, they’ve done the work to become worthy, knowing that will poison that relationship for most, I think.

    • @littleredbender
      @littleredbender 15 годин тому

      I would love to know if the person I'm dating would toss me because of something I've done in the past. I care about how my partner handles mistakes after they happen...I don't need to pretend they've never made mistakes. If my partner needs to pretend, they can go find an imaginary girlfriend.

  • @richardmckrell4899
    @richardmckrell4899 День тому

    Nothing worse than hearing about how your old and ridin hard partner got that way. Mums the word.

  • @ryanrogers8211
    @ryanrogers8211 День тому

    No man ever wants to hear about his wife or girlfriends past sexual encounters and relationships. It’s repulsive to us.

    • @joel4960
      @joel4960 День тому

      There is nothing to gain from it.

    • @NomadGragg
      @NomadGragg День тому

      Grow up. It lets you weed out women you probably don't want to engage with anyway. A person's past can help you see a bigger picture of your future with them

    • @kindnessmatters4068
      @kindnessmatters4068 23 години тому

      My husband has helped me so much with my past!! I'm so thankful he wanted to know. ❤

    • @jnicole2440
      @jnicole2440 21 годину тому

      It's not about that part of it.

    • @cassidylopez671
      @cassidylopez671 2 години тому

      Us ladies don’t want to hear it either, it can also be repulsive to us, but a lot of adult men or women realize what is best for their partner & the betterment of the relationship so we push our feelings to the side ❤ it’s obvious unless you know you married a virgin that we all have had a past before our current

  • @user-tj5cx7tl1m
    @user-tj5cx7tl1m День тому

    Strongly disagree!! It’s almost always a woman wanting to know. A man doesn’t! He wants to progress and let the past be the past!

    • @kindnessmatters4068
      @kindnessmatters4068 23 години тому

      My brother, husband, and friends must be quite different than the average then... ❤ I have been surrounded by super kind and tender men in my life! My husband has helped me with my past, and I'm so thankful he wanted to know. ❤

    • @user-tj5cx7tl1m
      @user-tj5cx7tl1m 23 години тому

      @@kindnessmatters4068 absolutely respect that!

    • @jnicole2440
      @jnicole2440 21 годину тому

      Not in my experience. You can't fully know someone without knowing their past. No one said anything about in depth conversations about certain sides of past relationships

    • @littleredbender
      @littleredbender 15 годин тому

      That's about ego...not about moving forward/progress. The past is never just the past. You are the end result of your past and understanding who you are today requires understanding where you came from.

  • @mjeff5050
    @mjeff5050 День тому

    It's really hard to understand context without information.

  • @eod25
    @eod25 День тому

    I hate when people don't wanna know what you've been through. Like so you want to stay strangers?

    • @HighJaay.-.
      @HighJaay.-. День тому

      This comment thou😂

    • @Timetravel755
      @Timetravel755 16 годин тому

      No talk about it..and move on. There should be no feelings. It's the past. You should have healed

    • @joel4960
      @joel4960 Годину тому

      @@Timetravel755 I'm guessing you're not a therapist.

  • @anquinetteharri
    @anquinetteharri День тому

    Smart❤

  • @Julie-kb3mo
    @Julie-kb3mo День тому

    💜 Aaaaaawww. What a special experience. 🥲 (Happy tears)

  • @Julie-kb3mo
    @Julie-kb3mo День тому

    🤷‍♀️ Where's the Bible reference here, guys ? From Ephesians 4:26-27 Do not let the sun go down on your anger. It would be nice since you're a faith based couple if you'd at least touch on this here. 🙂 It goes beyond the the thought/ believe of not going to bed angry. It teaches that there are times we ARE to be angry, yet we should never sin in our anger, which would thereby be giving the devil a foothold. While these short little snippets give us something to think about, sometimes they need a bit more depth. 💜

  • @2ofakind172
    @2ofakind172 День тому

    My husband also is a late night chocolate eater who leaves the wrappers 😂

  • @shelbyschroeder4034
    @shelbyschroeder4034 День тому

    Oh my gosh the first poop after a c section is literally terrrrrifying

  • @chaz351
    @chaz351 2 дні тому

    😣 P R O M O S M

  • @CrystalMermaid6
    @CrystalMermaid6 2 дні тому

    I’d say try to settle it before bed but sometimes your just tired and cranky and your tolerance/ emotional resistance is weaker and yell at each other or trying to fix it before bed will just make it worse or you could get good rest and try agin Tomorrow but you have to communicate.

  • @14859hnl
    @14859hnl 2 дні тому

    This episode was so good, guys! More of this in the future please!!!

  • @JDLPC
    @JDLPC 2 дні тому

    I’m sure they banned it because of Covid.

  • @danielamazza1063
    @danielamazza1063 2 дні тому

    Did Guy and Shannon ever get together

  • @evalagerqvist9846
    @evalagerqvist9846 2 дні тому

    😊♥️💯‼️🫂

  • @patiridge9906
    @patiridge9906 2 дні тому

    My husband would never buy tampons at the store BUT he had no problem buying condoms!!

    • @mejustme71
      @mejustme71 14 годин тому

      Why won’t he buy something that u need?

    • @patiridge9906
      @patiridge9906 22 хвилини тому

      @@mejustme71 I was making fun of him because he was too embarrassed to buy tampons but not condoms! I’m 72 so I haven’t had the problem for a while! 😃

  • @angelita9572
    @angelita9572 2 дні тому

    You talk it out before you go to bed...you apologize and forgive each other...then you pray together to make things right

  • @ra3_ven239
    @ra3_ven239 2 дні тому

    After an argument where they say all the worst things they possibly can, going to bed angry, knowing the coversation won't happen the next day or ever forces me to heal on my own. He thinks everything is fine because I'm not angry, but I'm really just estranged.

    • @Julie-kb3mo
      @Julie-kb3mo День тому

      TOTALLY !!!! Uuuuuuh !!! 😩

  • @madisonashton1750
    @madisonashton1750 2 дні тому

    I’m one that needs time to calm down so if that means going to bed angry then that’s okay cooler heads will prevail in the morning.

  • @nanaronhano337
    @nanaronhano337 2 дні тому

    You don’t have to have the entire argument settled and figured out. But you shouldn’t go to sleep furious with your husband or wife. Anger shouldn’t carry over from day to day. That’s how you end up ruining a good thing. You have to be humble enough to hear the other person out and apologize if needed. ❤

  • @rebeccaortiz663
    @rebeccaortiz663 2 дні тому

    ❤never go to bed upset at those you love. Every effort to make it better because you never know your last moment with them ❤

    • @nanaronhano337
      @nanaronhano337 2 дні тому

      I totally agree! It’s hard to sleep with your heart beating all mad or crying too.

  • @margaretgarrett2605
    @margaretgarrett2605 2 дні тому

    I actually think that if I'm angry it's best to wait till morning to talk about it. That way I can sleep on what I'm trying to convey and gives me a chance to also calm down. You can't take words back after you say them.

  • @lovemom5723
    @lovemom5723 2 дні тому

    Please don’t delete this post. My husband and I have referenced back to this numerous times. We have it set up on our calendar, to do at the beginning of every year. ♥️ Thank you so much for sharing such impactful information. ♥️

  • @robbishilts8111
    @robbishilts8111 3 дні тому

    MY DAD WAS MY BIGGEST CHEERLEADER AS WELL, MY MOM HAD A VERY HARD TIME WITH IT, BUT WE ARE BEST FRIENDS NOW!!

  • @holly0910
    @holly0910 3 дні тому

    The peeing!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @holly0910
    @holly0910 3 дні тому

    Last time I cried was just the other day. I was listening to a 90’s country music playlist and some of the songs just made me realize how thankful I am for my husband for the past 14 years ❤

  • @kelseyLG
    @kelseyLG 3 дні тому

    Definitely made it this far 🙌🏻 I enjoyed this, you both are amazing!

  • @elizabeththorson5184
    @elizabeththorson5184 3 дні тому

    Wonderful! I wish 2 people I love had had your perspective AND desire to work on their marriage after 14 1/2 yrs. ( minus one 8 mo. break-up before they married) and 2 kiddos.

  • @jillshiveley5377
    @jillshiveley5377 3 дні тому

    😂😂😂 You guys are hilarious and the way you describe them …. SO FUNNY!!! Thanks for creating Couple Things, and all the other ways you entertain us!!!! Shawn you’ve always been my favorite gymnast!! I was a gymnast, never Elite, but nevertheless I loved it!! Just a quick note, I have severe depression and have suffered with it for years. Listening to you guys helps me so much and I literally LOL,..lots!!! So, just wanted to say thanks, again for all you do!!! Drew, Jett and Bear are beyond beautiful and you both make awesome parents!!!💗

  • @conniemckenzie7801
    @conniemckenzie7801 3 дні тому

    You were meant to be together. ❤️

  • @MamaDee3
    @MamaDee3 3 дні тому

    Don’t insult him by calling him Tom Cruz 😢

  • @MarSmiles
    @MarSmiles 3 дні тому

    God's timing is always perfect! What a great story.

  • @carmenc1427
    @carmenc1427 3 дні тому

  • @aolande1
    @aolande1 3 дні тому

    I’ve actually always thought Shawn and Andrew didn’t support the LGBTQ+ community. I clicked so fast when I saw this bc I was so pleasantly surprised to see this upload from them. Good for you, S&A.

  • @adriangusky5028
    @adriangusky5028 4 дні тому

    I have a mamas boy (husband) would love some advice on that….Shawn….help

  • @rachanddennis06
    @rachanddennis06 4 дні тому

    Cabinet doors is a pet peeve of mine as well. I gave up “nagging” about it. Now I just shut them myself. After 24 years. I’ve learned to pick my battles. And cabinet doors isn’t a battle I need to have every day.

  • @MelKoi-of9yj
    @MelKoi-of9yj 4 дні тому

    Hey just curious if you ever gave away money for writing a review for your podcast?

  • @geno5169
    @geno5169 4 дні тому

    Thank you 🙏 two for sharing your Love experience ❤each other! I look forward to your vedio’s! I can tell how much Andrew loves you shawn! You both have something special! You two remind me of how loving my wife and I for each other! We actually going away to our 33 years of marriage! To our favorite country place in Pennsylvania!

  • @sanlo5404
    @sanlo5404 4 дні тому

    I totally agree on the minivan thing. I’m already a grandma and I still think minivans are so goofy.

  • @MeredithAnne88
    @MeredithAnne88 4 дні тому

    I remember the tuxedo jacket and braided hair! I loved the dating series when I found your channel. So glad to see you revisiting the story! Much love to you both.

  • @Hudsondurham5561
    @Hudsondurham5561 4 дні тому

    Great story of God’s plan for you two!!! 45:33

  • @Kim-iloveeeyore
    @Kim-iloveeeyore 4 дні тому

    The genuine love and passion in your eyes. Drew has her daddies smile, so cute